Lumalabas na ang cons pag nag sarge mag isa sa isang mall at sabado; bihira lang ang nag-iisa kung meron man hinde ko nakita. Nag try ako mag hanap sa Power Books, pero medyo olats - medyo kasi may na meet naman ako isang HB10 kaso dahil nga gusto ko pure Juggler, nag hang ako. Walang awkward moment kasi na meet ko sya habag naka pila ako sa cashier. Tingin ko 3 questions lang yata ang natanong ko, pero nag reward ako at relate kaso hinde naka pag escalate kasi hang.
Yung next ay hinde ko considered na approach kasi nilapitan ko sya sa isang convention at sya ang bantay nang booth nila. Maganda naman sya HB8, ito medyo maganda ang pag-uusap namin yun lang hinde ako naka escalate nang conversation kasi nag hang. Nasa level one of Rapport building lang napag usapan namin, may ilang conversation na dumaplis sa level 2 pero dahil nga hang, hinde na sustain.
Lesson for to remember:
1. Para hinde mag hang be curious, again para hinde makalimutan be CURIOUS.
2. Be funny, na stack sa kaka-isip sa reward-relate, hinde man lang nag joke, kahit may opening.
3. Need to experiment on the right state of mind, para I can think clearly and fast. Tomorrow I'll try the "maginoo pero medyo bastos state of mind".
Yung si HB10, naramdaman ko yung tension na parang sinasabi nya eh "hoy gago, nakapag open ka na, pag patuloy mo yung conversation" - maybe siguro sa reward-relate na ginawa ko, kahit isa beses ko lang nagawa sa kanya, I think it hit her; but again, maybe nagkakamali ako sa naramdaman kong tension.
Anyway bukas is araw nang Simba, I'll sarge again, I hope this time I should actually have atelast a 10 mins conversation with at-least reaching level 2 raport and no hang.
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Sarge - October 31, 2009
Sarge - October 28, 2009
Bawat umaalis ako, I make sure na may approach akong gagawin; this day pumunta ako sa isang agency nang government to fix some stuff.
Any way after nun, pumunta ako sa Megamall to sarge, pero I don't know what happen, but I'm not in the proper mood to sarge; maybe because I'm still not used on sarging alone and/or my mind is kinda block (feels like it only working 30% of its engine) and/or my dry eyes is really irritating, and/or na hawa ako nang vibe nung taxi driver; tinanong ko kasi kung kamusta byahe nya, suplado ang sagot.
So na realize ko na, I just need to realize my own potential regarding sarging alone. Saturday hopefully kahit 2 hours lang maka punta sana nang mall, so I can practice approaching and having a conversation.
This is what will happen, from approach 7 to 10; my goal is not to number close but to have a 10 mins conversation using Juggler Method.
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Approach #5 and #6
Nakakalungkot talo ang Beda sa Championship; wala kasi tayong play - dahil yun sa rotation style ni Coach. No team chemistry at umaasa sa individual skills nang player.
This past week nalaman ko na mas maganda talaga ang Natural way; hinde umaasa sa routines, so naisip-isip ko na pag-aralan ulit ang Juggler. So for the next 3 to 4 months, I will practice the Juggler. Kung may gagawin man akong routine, eh probably yung ring routine at bestfriend test.
Back to the approaches; I can say na medyo successful ang approach ko; yung nag pa medyo kasi eh si approach #5 eh based sa US at si approach #6 eh may BF.
Approach #5
Where: Araneta Coliseum, habang nag hihintay sa mga friends na bumili nag food.
- Well actually 2 set sila nung nakita ko; opener ko nalang eh what school are you from. Nalaman ko na niyaya lang pala sila nang friend nilang Bedista; Yung salad ko, cute sya kaso yun nga naka based pala sya sa US so hinde ko na kinuha yung number. Completely Juggler ang ginawa ko, the usual ask-reward-relate and other juggler way; pero still need practice and experience. Did also the bestfriends test and paniwalang-paniwala sila, nice.
Pros: I didn't experience any AA; have a good conversation of around 10mins.
Cons: while doing the best friends test naramdaman nung non-salad na medyo nanginginig ako. May mga hang up moment.
Approach #6
Where:Gateway
-Ito biglaan, pag labas ko nang CR, nakita ko sya(1 set), so open kaagad ako using "Where did you buy that t-shirt opener". Okay naman, friendly tapos responsive, ang sumira lang eh yung logistics. Meron akong self rule, na kung mag BF ka, hinde ko kukunin number mo, syempre especially kung kasama mo BF mo. Nung tinanong ko kung sino kasama nya, gibberish ang sagot nya, actually no hint na kasama nya BF nya, yung pagkakasabi nya eh, parang regular friends lang nya kasama nya; so ginawa ko kinuha ko number nya, sakto naman, may dumating na lalaki, hinde ko alam na BF nya yun, pero nung dumating yung AMOG hinawakan nya si approach #6 sa bandang small of her back. So pagkuha ko nang number nya, sibat kaagad ako sinabi ko nalang, I'll text her about the t-shirt.
Pros: medyo gumagaling na ako sa situational opener; used the juggler.
Cons: hinde ko alam pero nangi-nginig ako, obvious na habang nilalagay ko name nya sa cellphone ko, nangi-nginig ako nang sobra; hinde ko alam kunng bakit. Experience a mis-information about the logistics.
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Sarge - October 22, 2009
This is my 2nd week of sarge after my bootcamp, and so far no successful game yet. Samahan mo pa nang pagkatalo nang San Beda sa Baste, haaaay, malamya ang import namin. Sa totoo lang panget din ang laro nang Baste, nagkataon na malas players natin. Siguro kung pumapasok lang ang mga tira ni Pascual, lamang na tayo nang atleast 10 points.
Okay back to the Sarge part; isa lang ang approach ko(nilapitan ko sa loob nang Araneta Coliseum), kaso malas kasi High School pala ang nilapitan ko, so hangang opening lang ako, tapos sibat na. Ang ginamit kong opener eh, "Guys what college are you?" tapos sabi nila HS sila.
Nabad trip din ako sa sarile ko, gustong gusto kong mag approach kaso kulang sa push, yung push na ginagawa sa akin ni SSX, yung sasabihin nalang nya sa akin, "approach mo yun" tapos approach kaagad ako. So next time, ang plano, sasabihin ko sa mga kaibigan ko na, magturo kayo, lalapitan ko, para ma-push ako, hehehe.
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