Approach #7 and #8

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

When: November 3, 2009

Nagpatawag nang special meeting si SSX sa Greenbelt, so ginawa ko pumunta ako nang maaga para chance narin makapag sarge.

Approach#7
where: SM Makati

Parang scene sa isang Koreanovela ang nangyari; para kasi serendipity - ito kasi ang nangyari - pag tapos ko bumili nang earphones, may nakita ako isang set pababa sa escalator, dahil pababa rin ako balak ko syang i-open, nung nasa escalator na kami nakita ko maganda sya pero hinde ko type, and medyo na AA(approach anxiety) din ako.

So pagbaba ko nang escalator may nakita ako isang set nakatalikod naglalakad pero mukhang familiar, so binilisan ko lakad ko sakto naman huminto sya tapos sabay ginamit ko yung opener ko na "alam mo ba kung nasaan yung National Bookstore?", laking gulat ko na sya yung crush ko nung college, swerte!!! kasi dati wala akong lakas nang loob mag "Hi" manlang sa kanya.

Sinamahan nya ako pumunta sa National Bookstore, pero syempre wala naman talaga ako balak pumunta doon; so harap nang National Bookstore I initiated a conversation, nahirapan pa rin ako mag JM pero nakapag reward-relate naman ako, yun lang hirap parin mag escalate so 80% yata nang conversation namin eh fluff talk. Pero tingin ko we have atleast 5mins++ conversation, and syempre I got her number. Balak ko mag day2 sa kanya, tamang-tama the community will meet again this Thursday, so I will ask for tips.

Pros: Hinde ako kinabahan
Cons: puro fluff talk

Approach#8
where: Greenbelt

Habang naghihintay kay SSX, umupo muna ako. Sa left side ko merong 2 sets(HB7 with an Xfactor); nasa isip ko na open ko sila pero na AA na naman ako; pero inisip ko yung mindset na "magtatanong lang naman ako, walang masama doon" mindset, ito ang ginagamit ko to beat AA.

So nung mag open na ako, biglang umalis yung isa, so for me parang medyo nadalian ako sa pag open. Ginamit ko yung opener na "ito lang ba ang Starbucks dito sa Greenbelt?"; then I transition to a normal conversation.

Dumating na yung kasama nya then I have a good conversation with them, may kulitan minsan inaasar pa nila ako; I tried to use the bestfriends test pero ayaw nila kasi alam nila close na sila; na hook ko sila sa ring routine. I think we have a good 15mins conversation. Hinde ko lang na number close kasi hinde ko naman goal eh maka number close, pinaka goal ko eh to have a good conversation with them.

Pros: Sinabihan ako nung isang set na "ganto ka ba lagi?" meaning na I always talk to strangers; medyo nagulat ako sa tanong nya kasi for me parang yung ginagawa ko eh normal thing lang sa akin, ang hindi nila alam eh sila ang una kong nakausap nang ganun. So I guess I'm improving. Nag push-pull din ako.
Cons: May mga kuliglig moment. I should get the number, really get the number, puro kasi lalaki ang kaibigan ko.

Epiphany:
For the first 10mins dapat I'll set the mood to a happy one, talk about things na masaya then escalate to personal things.

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Approach #5 and #6

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Nakakalungkot talo ang Beda sa Championship; wala kasi tayong play - dahil yun sa rotation style ni Coach. No team chemistry at umaasa sa individual skills nang player.

This past week nalaman ko na mas maganda talaga ang Natural way; hinde umaasa sa routines, so naisip-isip ko na pag-aralan ulit ang Juggler. So for the next 3 to 4 months, I will practice the Juggler. Kung may gagawin man akong routine, eh probably yung ring routine at bestfriend test.

Back to the approaches; I can say na medyo successful ang approach ko; yung nag pa medyo kasi eh si approach #5 eh based sa US at si approach #6 eh may BF.

Approach #5
Where: Araneta Coliseum, habang nag hihintay sa mga friends na bumili nag food.

- Well actually 2 set sila nung nakita ko; opener ko nalang eh what school are you from. Nalaman ko na niyaya lang pala sila nang friend nilang Bedista; Yung salad ko, cute sya kaso yun nga naka based pala sya sa US so hinde ko na kinuha yung number. Completely Juggler ang ginawa ko, the usual ask-reward-relate and other juggler way; pero still need practice and experience. Did also the bestfriends test and paniwalang-paniwala sila, nice.

Pros: I didn't experience any AA; have a good conversation of around 10mins.
Cons: while doing the best friends test naramdaman nung non-salad na medyo nanginginig ako. May mga hang up moment.


Approach #6
Where:Gateway

-Ito biglaan, pag labas ko nang CR, nakita ko sya(1 set), so open kaagad ako using "Where did you buy that t-shirt opener". Okay naman, friendly tapos responsive, ang sumira lang eh yung logistics. Meron akong self rule, na kung mag BF ka, hinde ko kukunin number mo, syempre especially kung kasama mo BF mo. Nung tinanong ko kung sino kasama nya, gibberish ang sagot nya, actually no hint na kasama nya BF nya, yung pagkakasabi nya eh, parang regular friends lang nya kasama nya; so ginawa ko kinuha ko number nya, sakto naman, may dumating na lalaki, hinde ko alam na BF nya yun, pero nung dumating yung AMOG hinawakan nya si approach #6 sa bandang small of her back. So pagkuha ko nang number nya, sibat kaagad ako sinabi ko nalang, I'll text her about the t-shirt.


Pros: medyo gumagaling na ako sa situational opener; used the juggler.
Cons: hinde ko alam pero nangi-nginig ako, obvious na habang nilalagay ko name nya sa cellphone ko, nangi-nginig ako nang sobra; hinde ko alam kunng bakit. Experience a mis-information about the logistics.

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