X-Arts on BNO

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Kagabi nasa BNO ang X-Arts, at kahit 3 weeks palang ako sa community sinama nila ako. Its a very cool experience. First time ko sa isang radio show at dun pa isang sikat na station at show, naks.


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Approach #7 and #8

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

When: November 3, 2009

Nagpatawag nang special meeting si SSX sa Greenbelt, so ginawa ko pumunta ako nang maaga para chance narin makapag sarge.

Approach#7
where: SM Makati

Parang scene sa isang Koreanovela ang nangyari; para kasi serendipity - ito kasi ang nangyari - pag tapos ko bumili nang earphones, may nakita ako isang set pababa sa escalator, dahil pababa rin ako balak ko syang i-open, nung nasa escalator na kami nakita ko maganda sya pero hinde ko type, and medyo na AA(approach anxiety) din ako.


So pagbaba ko nang escalator may nakita ako isang set nakatalikod naglalakad pero mukhang familiar, so binilisan ko lakad ko sakto naman huminto sya tapos sabay ginamit ko yung opener ko na "alam mo ba kung nasaan yung National Bookstore?", laking gulat ko na sya yung crush ko nung college, swerte!!! kasi dati wala akong lakas nang loob mag "Hi" manlang sa kanya.

Sinamahan nya ako pumunta sa National Bookstore, pero syempre wala naman talaga ako balak pumunta doon; so harap nang National Bookstore I initiated a conversation, nahirapan pa rin ako mag JM pero nakapag reward-relate naman ako, yun lang hirap parin mag escalate so 80% yata nang conversation namin eh fluff talk. Pero tingin ko we have atleast 5mins++ conversation, and syempre I got her number. Balak ko mag day2 sa kanya, tamang-tama the community will meet again this Thursday, so I will ask for tips.

Pros: Hinde ako kinabahan
Cons: puro fluff talk

Approach#8
where: Greenbelt

Habang naghihintay kay SSX, umupo muna ako. Sa left side ko merong 2 sets(HB7 with an Xfactor); nasa isip ko na open ko sila pero na AA na naman ako; pero inisip ko yung mindset na "magtatanong lang naman ako, walang masama doon" mindset, ito ang ginagamit ko to beat AA.

So nung mag open na ako, biglang umalis yung isa, so for me parang medyo nadalian ako sa pag open. Ginamit ko yung opener na "ito lang ba ang Starbucks dito sa Greenbelt?"; then I transition to a normal conversation.

Dumating na yung kasama nya then I have a good conversation with them, may kulitan minsan inaasar pa nila ako; I tried to use the bestfriends test pero ayaw nila kasi alam nila close na sila; na hook ko sila sa ring routine. I think we have a good 15mins conversation. Hinde ko lang na number close kasi hinde ko naman goal eh maka number close, pinaka goal ko eh to have a good conversation with them.

Pros: Sinabihan ako nung isang set na "ganto ka ba lagi?" meaning na I always talk to strangers; medyo nagulat ako sa tanong nya kasi for me parang yung ginagawa ko eh normal thing lang sa akin, ang hindi nila alam eh sila ang una kong nakausap nang ganun. So I guess I'm improving. Nag push-pull din ako.
Cons: May mga kuliglig moment. I should get the number, really get the number, puro kasi lalaki ang kaibigan ko.

Epiphany:
For the first 10mins dapat I'll set the mood to a happy one, talk about things na masaya then escalate to personal things.

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Meeting the Community - November 3, 2009

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

SSX calls for an important meeting regarding for the betterment of the community. So this is my chance to meet with other PUA's in the country.

Pagdating ko sa venue, tingin ko ako palang ang nandun - then one by one may nakita akong mga taong duma-dating, may duda na ako na they are one of the PUA's that SSX invited; pero baka nagkakamali din ako.

Sa katabi kong table may nakita akong 2 sets(HB7) - habang nag hihintay kay SSX I open them. Check nyo nalang sa entry ko na Approach#7 and #8 for the details.

Medyo late si SSX, dumating and also I was right yung mga group of guys na nakita ko eh are the PUA's from X-Arts. Kung titingnan nyo sila, they seems ordinary guy like me, if you really are not familiar with PUA mapaptanong ka na - "this guys get the girls they want???" yes that's an "s" in girls.

SSX gives us the details - to sum it up, SSX will be interviewed on Magic 89.9 regarding PUA stuff and also to promote the Upcoming PUA summit this November 7, 2009.

Nag discuss din si SSX kung paano gawin ang The Alpha Way and The Entourage -(naturo na nya sa akin toh dati, and I can tell you it works)- The Alpha Way is basically from your posture, from your movements, and from the way you walk and act, people will think you own the place; your a somebody kung baga.

Ginawa ko toh sa isang mall, nag counter flow ako sa mga tao and guess what happens, pag dumadaan ako, sila ang umiiwas ako dire-diretso lang sa daan. Pero for me, my own experience pag nag Alpha Way ako people think suplado ako, maybe because people think ikaw ang may-ari nang mall and hinde ka nila ma-reach, hehehehe. So what I did I tone it down and do the Alpha Nice Way - Alpha but Approachable.

During the whole interaction, I also ask for advice and tips. I learn a lot, lalo na yung mga daMoves hehehe. Pero kailangan ko paring i-tweak kasi day game ako, super rare kasi ako kung mag club.

For me mas madaling mag socialize sa club kesa sa day game; kaya during day game I got to learn to be interesting so I can hook them on a conversation.

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Epiphany

Sunday, November 1, 2009

I only have one approach, and that approach could be number 7, but malas. I did my situational opener then... bam hinde sya marunong mag tagalog, sayang kasi she's cute, korean descent. Now usually this is not a problem, kasi merong mga routines pero dahil I'm using JM nasira na. Sa tagalog palang nga eh hirap na sa reward part sa English pa kaya. So I just basically ask for her opinion ang bail out.

Now even thou malas ang weekend na toh, I learn something big.
1st: I getting pretty good at situational opener siguro mga 75% good na ako.
2nd: Para hinde kabahan, focus on the process not the outcome - ang ibig kong sabihin start with the opener then transition, kung na hook ang girl do the JM.
3rd: Dahil hinde pa ako bihasa sa pagamit nang JM, I'll use the ring routine just in case na hang ako or hinde maka escalate.

Sa Tuesday may lakad ako so this is a good time to sarge.

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Learn the Secrets of the Art of Seduction. AttraXion Arts, or X Arts for short, is the premier and leading dating and seduction company in the Philippines, and is regarded as the GOLD STANDARD of date coaching in Asia.